A Mom’s Moment ~ Kristin Swenson

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As mothers, we all make different choices. From how we raise our children to how we shape our careers, there is NOT a one-size fits all approach. This I know for sure.

Still, I’ve always been interested and curious to see how other moms “do” it. I know firsthand that finding harmony between work, children, spouse, friends, and me-time is a constant challenge. By taking a behind-the-scenes peek into the lives of others, I often come away with some specific tools and inspiration.

Earlier this month, we caught up with Kristin Swenson, mother of two and co-founder of BonBon Rose Girls, one of our favorite fashion forward blogs designed for stylish moms on a reasonable budget.

From blogging conferences around the country to New York Fashion Week, to play dates and family dinners, Kristin is a busy woman. She gave us a glimpse into how she balances her busy career and her role as mom. As usual, the reminder that we are not alone in our quest to find harmony with it all was a welcomed reassurance! 

-Wendy Barry

Screen Shot 2013-08-16 at 4.36.53 PMMost of us mamas struggle with our work/life balance. Am I right? We chose to have our beautiful little cherubs and they come first, but that doesn’t mean we have to let all of the other parts of us that make us fulfilled women go by the wayside. So, how do we achieve the perfect amount of balance? The answer is we can’t. Something is probably going to get shortchanged at some point or another. And that’s ok.

For me, it’s often housework that gets the short end of the stick. I have a 13 month old and a five year old who demand my attention, as well as a work from home career that I cherish. So, after my babies are taken care of and my deadlines are met, there isn’t always time to mop the floors. I’m able to keep my kids at home with me by working on my blog and fashion articles during naptime and much of the evening. Thankfully, I have a partner who is very involved and when I have to work at night, he takes care of a lot of the household chores. And sometimes we have a lovely cleaning lady who gives our home the deep scrubbing it deserves. Haha! My mama even comes over from time to time to help get things organized. My advice to you is… ask for help when you need it and don’t feel guilty about it. Nobody can do it all.

I think many of us put the burden to take of everything on ourselves and it took me a long to time to accept that my house was probably going to be messy until the kids went to bed… And gourmet meals were not going to happen on the regular, if it all. Haha! But what I do have are two kids that know they’re loved, a wonderful marriage and a flourishing career. Whatever “balance” I’ve achieved works for us. What works for you? I would love to know!

Before I leave you, I have two final suggestions… I’m sure you’ve heard it before, but unplug when you can. I’m definitely working on unplugging more. Although, my job requires daily use of social media, sometimes I just need to take a time out from all the gadgets and apps and spend quality time with my little family. As much as I love what I do, being a mama and wife are more precious to me than anything else! So, every now and again a date night is in order too, because mommy and daddy need quality time all on their own. Just sayin’!

Kristen (left) and Megan (right) at New York City Fashion Week

BonBon Rose Girls: Kristen (left) and Megan (right) at New York City Fashion Week.

Kristin Swenson is the fashion obsessed founding partner of BonBonRoseGirls.com. She lives in Tampa, FL with her husband and two children, enjoys styling, writing, and is on a constant hunt for ways to help the girls next door – whether they’re busy career gals or harried mamas – stay hip and fashionable! You can connect with Kristin on FacebookTwitterPinterestInstagram or Google+!

Family Photo Credit (top right): Best Part Photography www.bestpartphotography.com

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A Mom’s Moment is a series of blog posts capturing all of the memorable, challenging, significant, and everyday “moments” we experience as moms.  Every woman takes on this role in a different way AND every woman has a special story to tell. Our goal is to embrace these moments and share them with you: the good (and the bad), the things we love (and the things we don’t)… and everything in between.

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9 Comments on "A Mom’s Moment ~ Kristin Swenson"

  1. I am a BIG fan of Kristin Swenson’s Blog Bon Bon Rose Girls– I love her tips and advice for keeping stylish on a budget and this advice is SO SPOT ON! I too am working on unplugging more! Thanks for this fabulous series!

  2. Crissy says:

    I know that I definitely need to try to unplug more, and a date night with my husband, what’s THAT? :) Great post!

  3. I think asking for help is key. Sometimes it means hired help and sometimes it means asking a friend to take the kids, but we shouldn’t try to go it alone. And uplugging… yeah, well, I’m not so good at that one. :-) Most of all, it’s nice to hear that other moms are struggling to juggle it all too. :-)

  4. Unplugging is SO important. We all have to recharge our batteries from time to time and our families deserve our full attention. I am working more and more on prioritizing and doing only what matters. I have taken the attitude of “nothing is urgent for me anymore, it will all get done” Thanks for sharing!

  5. Molly Gold says:

    We lose ourselves in so many forms of media today and as old fashioned as it sounds, unplugging is where the road to clarity always begins =) Great post!

  6. I am the worst about unplugging but I did plan a great date this week with my husband.

  7. Glamamom says:

    Agreed. I am all about unplugging!


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